An introduction

Hi there I’m Sarah and a few friends have told me I should start a blog of my kinky sexy antics, so here we are. A bit about me then to start.

I first came across kink as a teenager experimenting with sex and my sexuality, nearly 30 years ago. From a young age I always new I was different but didn’t know how, or how to express it. I tried to fit in and make friends but it never felt right to me. So I grew up through my teenage years with very few people i would call a friend, I didn’t really socialise with anybody, didn’t go out on a Saturday shopping or uptown (London), usually just stayed home or went to my grand parents. I joined the local cricket club for something to do and somewhere to go and this became my week. Mon-Fri at school (or work when I left school at 16) and at the cricket club on a sat/sun

After a while in my late teens, aged 18/19 I started to think I might be gay, not that this was a problem, but having never had sex with a man or woman i really didn’t know. So I visited a couple of working girls whose numbers were in the back of the local paper in those days and hung around in chat rooms online, meeting a guy or two from on there, but no i still didn’t feel right and liked my time with the girls as much as the guys, I was so confused

On day i found myself in London just sitting on a bench eating a burger, and I kept being drawn to the business cards stuck in the phone box nearby for some reason. The next thing i found myself talking to a woman on the phone who called herself a dominatrix going by the name of Mistress Venus, and I was arranging a play session for later that day, and so my journey into kink began (more details of this first session in another blog)

Fast forward 20 years and I finally had the courage and the words to describe who I was, thanks to someone who has become a very close friend I was able to take my first steps into this world as myself, as Sarah, yes I am Transgender and am having the happiest time of my life so far. Much more open and relaxed and living life to the full. So this is me, Sarah a kinky 46yo pre-op transgender woman. For the uninitiated yes that means for now I still have a penis, although I call it my big clit